As you grew into the adult you are now, your work evolved. You may have spent many years in school completing a degree program. And you probably got that first “real” job, whether you went to college or not. Another first in your life was when you had a full-time job making full-time money - but also with full-time adult responsibilities.
During this phase in your life, you may have bought your first home and had children. You may have also taken on debt - in the form of a mortgage or a school loan. If so, you’ve no doubt worked hard to make your payments in full and on time.
This is the stage of life where you’re in the thick of it. You may even feel like all you do is work - even if it’s work you aren’t being paid for. But isn’t this a wonderful time, too? If you have children, you work hard to teach them what they need to know to become successful adults. You also support them financially to ensure they have all they need in life. And when you see them grow into adulthood, you see the results of all your hard work for them as they become caring, compassionate, productive members of society.
You've undoubtedly worked hard if you start a business during this time. You probably gave most of your time, energy, and attention (and maybe even money) to make your dream a reality. You’ve worked hard to create jobs for other people who need them. You’ve created a solution to a problem that didn’t exist before you came along.
Now, take a moment to think about what you’ve accomplished with all your hard work. Have you enriched other people’s lives? Have you supported the people you love most to grow into their full potential? Have you created something in the world that wasn’t there before? What else? Think about not only the tangibles, like creating a business or succeeding in a demanding career, but also the intangibles, like the love you give and receive. How do you feel as you reflect on your life at this stage? Has all the hard work been worth it? What do you want to pass on to the people you love?