When you meet with me for a Life & Legacy Planning Session, I will support you to create this inventory before we create your plan, because this inventory is incredibly important. Without an inventory, your family will not know how to find your assets and assets you care about could easily get lost, or be difficult to find.
Once you have created your inventory, we’ll meet for up to 2 hours and review your assets, your benefits, your family dynamics and your desires, values, and wishes for what you want to happen with everything you own and everyone you love, in the event of your incapacity, or eventual death. We’ll go through your asset inventory and I’ll tell you what will happen to each under your current estate plan. I’ll also tell you what will happen to your loved ones, including your minor children. Armed with this knowledge, you’ll then decide on the right plan for you, based on what’s important to you and in alignment with your budget.
Note that service members can create basic estate planning documents through the military legal assistance office at no cost. This may or may not be an adequate option for you, depending on your needs. For example, if you have minor children, you need a comprehensive plan that will keep your children from being taken into the care of strangers or raised by people you’d never want to raise them, if something happens to you. Or, if you have a blended family, no children, a business, a child with special needs, or significant assets, you need a comprehensive plan that will keep your family out of court and conflict, which a free, documents-only plan will not do. Finally, for your plan to work when you need it to, your plan needs regular reviews and updates as your life changes, your family dynamics change, and your assets change.
A free, documents-only plan is just that - documents. You won’t have a trusted advisor who has your back and will ensure your plan stays updated over time. But you get all these benefits (regular reviews, a comprehensive plan that keeps your family out of court and conflict, etc.) when you work with me and create a Life & Legacy Plan. So I encourage you to educate yourself before creating a plan based only on documents. I have many free resources for you on my website to help, or you can book a complimentary consult call with me using the booking link below.
Working with a Trusted Advisor
While the military legal assistance office provides valuable services, you may benefit from working with an attorney who understands both veterans' benefits and estate planning, especially if you have a potentially complex situation, like a blended family, a family member with special needs, a debilitating illness, no children (yes, this is often a complex matter, not a simple one!), or many varied assets. A competent attorney can help you:
- Structure your estate to maximize benefits for your survivors
- Create trusts to protect assets if you need long-term care
- Navigate complex VA regulations
- Ensure your estate plan complies with state and federal laws
- Update your plan as laws and regulations change